Seriously, though: having that first f2f (albeit our digital faces) made such a huge difference, both in terms of alleviating my newcomer’s anxiety and (~related) my ability to hit the ground running.
As insanely difficult as it must have been to schedule all of these (@stefanie, you give too much credit to Calendly, I’m sure), it was also great that these were just part of the process (I hate the word mandatory, but that’s kind of what I mean). Had it been a matter of “if you have more questions and want to chat beforehand…” I would’ve felt like it was an imposition.
So, basically, everything you know to be true and wrote in that post I agree with. (Giving it a or +1 didn’t seem like enough!)